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Here's the story!
Me and [ex] broke up July 15. July 25th my cousin was talking to a close friend of hers, [new]. He was in jail. Had been for a year. He asked her to get him a pen-pal. I told her i would write to him. I did. He told me that he was just recently single...the female he was with for 3 years told him it was over in May because she was pregnant by another guy. She waited 10 months...then left him on his birthday. I told him about me and [ex]. We ended up talking everyday for a month...then he asked if i would be his girlfriend. [i basically was already] I said yes. On Sept 2 i found out i was 5 months pregnant. By who...[ex]. I told [new] he said it was fine..that he didn't mind...and that if he got out he would be there for my child. I was surprised that he even still wanted to talk to me because he was in jail and i was pregnant. Well on Sept 7 he told me he loved me. I knew i loved him. We had talked everyday..he was my BEST FRIEND. I know its crazy to think that i could have fallen for someone that i had NEVER in my life met. But i did. He was amazing. My best friend. The ONLY person i could really count on to be there for me. Jan 25 i gave birth to my beautiful baby boy. Jan 28 he got out. I thought he would come home to me. WRONG! He went back to the female he was with before he was with me. The one that left him. For 2 weeks i had no idea what to do...its like i was lost without him. Feb 8 he called me. I told him..."I waited 6 months, put 1,000.00 of money on your books, wrote letters, and went to every visitation...for you to go back to her? Your seriously one messed up person..." He did everything in his power to get me to forgive him. I did. And in March we got back together. Everything was great. He started disappearing on Friday's, Saturday's and Sunday's. He wouldn't answer his phone, return text messages. NOTHING. But come Monday morning he wanted to be with me 24/7. I kept letting it slide. Yesterday May 28 he called me at 6:04 and i asked him if we could meet up somewhere because i had plans with my family and wouldn't be done til this morning so i wanted to see him. He said no. That he was busy right that second...but def. later. I called him and text him at 11:11 last night. NO answer no text back. 5:57 this morning he called me. I answered. "hello?" he said "Oh, i shouldn't have called you..I'll let you sleep." "No...its ok...i gotta get up to get ready for work anyways." "No..i'll just call you later." Then he hung up. I text him. "Ok? That was weird. But just know I love you." No text back. I cried. I called back at 6:05 and told him that it was over. That i'm sick and tired of his "disappearing acts". And just not to worry about me anymore. I told him i loved him and wanted to be with him...but he would need to change. And i hung up. He text me at 6:11 and said "What did i do now?" I didn't text back. Its 12:08 and still haven't heard anything from him. I've been crying all morning...and what hurts me more than anything is the fact that he hasn't tried to fix this...he has made no effort to show me he cares.
So...my questions are...
What would you do? Should I call him? Should I text him? Should I let go? Should i stay? Should i fix this? What do you think i should do?
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If it were me i would move on.. Its not easy you love someone for a really long time,, Put up with there crap and this is what i get in return.. It hurts but you deserve better.. Should you call him? i would just to tell him that if this is what he wanted he got it and that you deserve better and that you can be a stronger person and then say goodbye for the last time. Should you text him.. No? If your scared about listening to his voice because thats what makes you completely forget what you called him for.. For some people but if you can control yourself Go for it! Should you let go? Hell yeaa you deserveee wayyyyy betterrr and i think you know what to do next