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Am I wrong for wanting more time with him?
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iluvhimsomuch
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Sad  Am I wrong for wanting more time with him?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and the past 6 months we have been fighting a lot and we aren't getting along very well. I get upset because he is ALWAYS working and I never get to see him. And he isn't allowed to talk at work unless he is on a break. He only gets one 30 minute break a day and that seems like the only time we talk. On the weekends we try to hang out.. He spends the night at his friends house on Fridays and then hangs out there for half or most of the day Saturday, then comes to hang out with me and we normally spend all day Sunday together. I need more time with him and he said that I am starting to become clingy.. I don't think that I am clingy, I just need some time with him so that I can feel loved again and feel like he still wants to be with me. He has many friends, and because I am really shy, I have no friends. It's hard for me to get any time with him because he says he is always having to make everyone happy, including his family, friends, and I. Am I wrong for wanting to spend more time with him? He comes over after work for about an hour every night, but it's like he isn't here at all because he is so tired from working so much. He just sits and watches TV.. It's starting to take a toll on our relationship and causing a lot of fights. What should I do?

05-03-2010 03:36 PM
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