i just recently gave birth to my wonderful daughter Leah just over 3 weeks ago and since then, my bf n my relationship has taken a hefty toll. i kno that some tension and change is to b expected, but wev drifted so far apart i hardly kno him nemore. the only contact we have is fighting about things such as diaper duty and whos had more sleep. iv begun to realize im severly depressed, and his verbal attacks on my emotions sure as hell aint helpin. iv considered leaving before, back wen i was still pregnant. but now i have baby in the world with me, and all that entails this adorable, innocent angel-everything from crib to booties. its really hard thinking that i want to leave him, but i know that im not healthy emotionally, and that affects my daughter too. wev been sleeping in seperate rooms, and we cant even stand to sit in the same room together anymore. its a horrible feeling to kno that the father of my child is completely disinterrested in me after all this time of him telling me that he loves me and hes gunna take care of me n baby cuz wer a family now. hes now retorted to threatening to cheat on me. its not a healthy relationship nemore, and before, it was only sporadicly good. im wondering if there are ways that we can fix this and become the couple i kno wer capable of, or bite the bullet and leave? common arguments consist of parenting strategies to housework etc. it hurts so much to kno that he doesnt care if i stay or if i go, and would prefer if i did leave because quote, "paying child support would b cheaper and easier than raising her and supporting us"