Ok so I dated this guy for a year and 3 months(we had been friends for 6 years when we decided to date) then we broke up cause he wanted too. We stayed friends then we still had feelings so we started dating again 8 months later and dated for 9 months. We recentlynbroke up cause he didnt think he liked me as much anymore and I wanst sure either. Then last night we ended up deciding to make out for fun, we still seem to have feelings for eachother and we want to spend time together and make out and other things. He told me when i asked after we madeout he didnt think we should become boyfriend and girlfriend at the moment..Why are we so confused on why we dont want to be in a relationship but we like eachother and wanna do things.

Confused...

Baby girl yu and him or just friends with benifits. To me it seems he dosent wanna be tied down he just wants someone to mess around with with no strings atached!