my boyfriend and i have been dating for alil over a year now. i love him very much and he says he feels the same about me. we had sex for the first time about a month
ago. ever since then i keep gettin the feeling that our relationship is turning into just a physical attraction. he doesnt call me anymore or ever just want to watch a
movie, go for a walk or just talk to me. everytime we hang out we end up doing sexual things and everytime we talk that all we talk about. im afraid our relationship is becoming based on sex and i want to know wat to do about this?

I can understand why you’re concerned with the recent changes in your relationship and the increasing focus on sex and I wonder if your boyfriend knows about your concern. If he is not aware of how you feel about this, it is going to be difficult for anything to change. The only way to make sure that you voice your concern (which sounds like a really fair one) is to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend. I know that this isn’t easy to do and if you want more support and ideas about how to do this, please feel free to log onto the online chatroom on this website. It’s open Mon, Tues, Wed. from 5-7pm (pacific time)
Good luck!

1. beba says:
I Understand You Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Datin For A Lil Over 2 Yrs and we had sex for the first time about 6 months ago and i use to think that ever since then our relatrionship was based on sex irts ws a same way that ur relatioship is he stop callin me we dnt chill and wen we did it was all about sex but once i told him how i felt everything was good and now evrything is back to normal.. just tell him how u feel and make him see that u miss how everything used to be…. im sure he will understand oki well i wish you good luck

dont hvae sex with him for a while and see if things go back to normal and when he tlaks about him just tell him ur no in the mood to talk about it

dont hvae sex with him for a while and see if things go back to normal and when he tlaks about him just tell him ur no in the mood to talk about it

ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 7 months and we had sex on our second month and eversince then, all we do is have sex when we are hanging out...even at parties we still have to find a way to have sex.
we also have many positive things about our relationship but i just feel like its all about the sex, sometimes we have sex more than 3 times a day...can someone tell me what the deal is? i need help so my relationship doesnt die out.