First and foremost im 20 years old and i have been with my bf for 2 years and a month. iam muslim and he is christian.
my family didnt agree to our relationship so i left my family for him because i realy love him and and want to be with him
but they didnt understand that . anyways its been like 3 months since i left and my bf hasnt been spending time with
me and tries to use excuses to not come over. o and im currently living with a freind, anyways i left everything for him
and i feeel he dont care about me anymore, and doesnt want to spend so much time with me, he gets my hopes up that he
coming and then he crushes them by not showing up . i consider that as lieing to me . he gets mad and says im crzy for
basically teling him how i feel . and he tells me all the time ( i love u baby you know i care about you, your my everything
without u im nothing, and a whole bunch of bull shit i dont belive) i told him to prove it if he did to show me he cared
so i could feel it. i think our relation ship is in jeoprody (cant spell the word ha ) anyways so idk how to tel him that our
relationship is bascially messing up and things need to change because i dnt think it will go very far . ive tried teling him
that but it dont stick in his thick head. so i need some advice how should i tell him how important it is to spend time with
me then dissing me for his freinds and tell him that our relationship is falling apart ? i want to make it stick into his
head. O and if im wasting my time with him and was it lossing everyone i loved for him . plz let me know wut yal think because im lost for words
i dont know wut to think or say anymore and i dont want my relationship to end. thanks for the advice.

Frist and foremost, you need to be true to yourself. I know that you are probably tired of hearing that but it couldn't be more true. My friend is also a Muslim young woman dating a Christian gentleman so I know that that isn't the issue. Your boyfriend shouldn't believe that you are crazy for your feelings. He shouldn't shut you down when you try to talk to him either. However, I will say that the world will put relationships through a lot. If things are meant to be, I believe that they will be. I wish you all the luck with your boyfriend and your family. I hope that with the grace of God/Allah you, your boyfriend, and your family are able to make things right again.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPIOION I APPRECIATE .

well i don't know if its worth losing it all. but your family should be able to forgive you if it doesn't work out with your bf. i agree with Narumi that he shouldn't be treating you that way at all. if he truly loves you he would be spending all his extra time with you and helping you through this situation together. not putting you down or ditching you. that is not right at all. i hope you have the best of luck and that everything works out to your happiness and satisfaction

thanks for the advice . the relationship is a lil better but my parents still dont like him at all .. but hopefullly everything will work out. thank u for ur opinion