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how can i tell?!!! - williamtellsdeath - 04-01-2010 11:26 AM
I am so confused. I need some help. How can I tell whether I am bisexual or bi-curious or just gay? I mean, I know that I am not completely straight, but I don't know anything more.
I had a gf for six months but we separated after it came to be only about sex (which we had quite often,regrettably). She liked it ALOT, and I did what she said because I didn't want to lose her. I don't know what to do because there is a boy I think I like, but I don't know how to go about it because the boy is openly bi and single. It gets more complicated still though, because the boy I like is friends with my x gf, and she would spread the word that I was bi. I mean, I could keep the relationship under wraps, but if she knew, she'd tell everyone who would listen. The boy is really really cute and that's why I question whether I am besexual or bicurious. Is there any way that I can know which one I am? Or is it possible that I'm gay; because I didn't particularly enjoy my sexual relations with my x gf?
RE: how can i tell?!!! - Shady's Angel 4 eva - 04-16-2010 07:27 AM
williamtellsdeath Wrote:
I am so confused. I need some help. How can I tell whether I am bisexual or bi-curious or just gay? I mean, I know that I am not completely straight, but I don't know anything more.
I had a gf for six months but we separated after it came to be only about sex (which we had quite often,regrettably). She liked it ALOT, and I did what she said because I didn't want to lose her. I don't know what to do because there is a boy I think I like, but I don't know how to go about it because the boy is openly bi and single. It gets more complicated still though, because the boy I like is friends with my x gf, and she would spread the word that I was bi. I mean, I could keep the relationship under wraps, but if she knew, she'd tell everyone who would listen. The boy is really really cute and that's why I question whether I am besexual or bicurious. Is there any way that I can know which one I am? Or is it possible that I'm gay; because I didn't particularly enjoy my sexual relations with my x gf?
I had a gf for six months but we separated after it came to be only about sex (which we had quite often,regrettably). She liked it ALOT, and I did what she said because I didn't want to lose her. I don't know what to do because there is a boy I think I like, but I don't know how to go about it because the boy is openly bi and single. It gets more complicated still though, because the boy I like is friends with my x gf, and she would spread the word that I was bi. I mean, I could keep the relationship under wraps, but if she knew, she'd tell everyone who would listen. The boy is really really cute and that's why I question whether I am besexual or bicurious. Is there any way that I can know which one I am? Or is it possible that I'm gay; because I didn't particularly enjoy my sexual relations with my x gf?
calm down, u probubly r bisexual and the only reason u didnt enjoy the sexual encounter was b cuz it was not pleasurable and u didnt get wat u wanted, u gave but didnt resieve basically. i would go ask the guy u like out and screw the gurl so wat if ur bi. 
i went out with a guy who said he was bi and i enjoyed him more then my x boy friend who was straight and a relationship isnt all about sexual encounters and thats all some gurls care about except for some like me.