04-01-2010, 11:26 AM
I am so confused. I need some help. How can I tell whether I am bisexual or bi-curious or just gay? I mean, I know that I am not completely straight, but I don't know anything more.
I had a gf for six months but we separated after it came to be only about sex (which we had quite often,regrettably). She liked it ALOT, and I did what she said because I didn't want to lose her. I don't know what to do because there is a boy I think I like, but I don't know how to go about it because the boy is openly bi and single. It gets more complicated still though, because the boy I like is friends with my x gf, and she would spread the word that I was bi. I mean, I could keep the relationship under wraps, but if she knew, she'd tell everyone who would listen. The boy is really really cute and that's why I question whether I am besexual or bicurious. Is there any way that I can know which one I am? Or is it possible that I'm gay; because I didn't particularly enjoy my sexual relations with my x gf?
I had a gf for six months but we separated after it came to be only about sex (which we had quite often,regrettably). She liked it ALOT, and I did what she said because I didn't want to lose her. I don't know what to do because there is a boy I think I like, but I don't know how to go about it because the boy is openly bi and single. It gets more complicated still though, because the boy I like is friends with my x gf, and she would spread the word that I was bi. I mean, I could keep the relationship under wraps, but if she knew, she'd tell everyone who would listen. The boy is really really cute and that's why I question whether I am besexual or bicurious. Is there any way that I can know which one I am? Or is it possible that I'm gay; because I didn't particularly enjoy my sexual relations with my x gf?
i went out with a guy who said he was bi and i enjoyed him more then my x boy friend who was straight and a relationship isnt all about sexual encounters and thats all some gurls care about except for some like me.