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ok .. so i've been in a relationship with K, my boyfriend, for almost 4 yrs now. Recently, i've just started working in a night cafe and there's these 3guys working too. They are J,A & I. A told me that he would have make me his girlfriend if i wasnt taken, he didint act all awkward around me or anything after confessing, he's a really nice guy to hang out with.. one day, A didint show up at work , and his friend, I, started txting me , calling me dear , babe and told me he dump all 3 of his girlfriends (I is a bad boy and a player too) to be with me. i told him i'm already taken and he said he'd wait for me. so i had a lil crush on him.. despite knowing that he's a bad bot and all and i've always had this lil fantasy abt dating a bad boy.
last night, i told I that i wont give him false hope bcz K and i are no whr near breaking up, I was a lil upset after i told him this.. later that night around 2am , he sent me a txt msg , saying that this is his last msg and he wont disturd me anymore.
now i'm wondering if this is some kind of a prank he's playing on me ?
Being all so sweet to me , calling me names then try to cut off whatever thing we're having .. ?

Hello Agnes... What I think his trying to do is let go because if it seems like he is trying to cut off all connections then he understands that it’s better that way because you are with a different person and he does not want to mess up anything. Well that what I think because I had to do that when my ex was getting married. I just came out of no where and said goodbye because it was the right choice…Even so it hurts me but I wish she understands y I had to do that…[/size]